Being a great parent isn’t something that you usually get much appreciation for! As a parent of a teen and a 21 year old, I can say that having a great tool box has made parenting more rewarding. I know I have done my best and can continue to be encouraging as my kids move into adulthood.

Would you like to improve your performance as a parent? Here are a few tips from my article:
20 TOOLS FOR BUILDING EFFECTIVE RELATIONSHIPS

• Instead of saying what you don’t want, politely request the behavior you DO desire.
• Take time for training! Teach the skills needed to get the behavior you desire–remember to do this one step at a time.
• Try an “I statement” to express your feelings in a positive way.
• Use your sense of humor–maybe a laugh would break the tension!
• Utilize What, Why and How questions that avoid blame and shame.
• Redirect the child’s NEED to a different, more acceptable activity.
• Structure reasonable, respectful, and related logical consequences with the child BEFORE the misbehavior occurs, if possible.
• Plan ahead. Hold a family meeting.

For a complete list of tips, read my special report:
20 Tips For Building Effective Relationships with Kids